This beautiful tough looking woman before you is my aunt Hortencia, or as my family calls her “Tencha.” As a young lady she decided to honor her country and join the Mexican Military. Throughout her career she experienced sexism and oppression for being a woman, but she overcame all that . She believed in herself and was able to achieve many impressive military achievements She has told me so many interesting stories of her time serving, and has practically traveled through all of Mexico. My aunt has no children, but makes up for it in Godchildren; I being one of them. I really love my aunt and look up to her and hope to some day make her proud, just like she made my family proud. :D
Monday, October 17, 2011
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
No Regrets here, No Tv's either.
Television, our way into the future, communication tool and our universal entertainment. As a child watching countless hours of television is what made me the happiest. Sitting on my comfy couch with it’s fluffy pillows, remote resting on my leg sun shinning through my window, the volume turned up all the way. What is there not to love? At times my parents and I would argue over the exact time it would be turned off. My day revolved around the time my shows would start and end. But no more! I have changed my mind, down with T.V.! So many people spend large amounts of hours glued to the front of their set’ day in and day out, another one of those constants in life. Parents take advantage of children programs and use the television as a babysitter for their small children. Some of the things broadcasted are in fact useful, however, we have been tricked by strategic marketing to be cheated of our favorite thirty minute sitcom and only end up watching about twenty minutes of the show with a ten minute bonus of commercials telling you what perfumes to wear. What clothes to buy, who to buy your groceries from. I guess what I am trying to communicate is that a couple of years ago society prospered without the television. People still got their dose of daily news without the screen. Why is it that all these luxuries are what most comforts people. When asked most people will tell you they hardly watch T.V and only turn it on at night to lull themselves to sleep. I don’t think I’ll ever look back at my decision to stop watching television and have any huge regrets in retrospect I think I have given myself about four hours of time out in the world.
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Classmate Interview
Born in Oxnard, CA, as the youngest of three children, Jonathan Fregoso is of Mexican descent, but has an Italian last name or so he says. He is motivated to attend college because he has many goals, to obtain a career and have a better life. There is no doubt in my mind that Jonathan is a hard worker currently he is attending school full time as well as working at a local bank. He is very busy most of the week but still finds the time to spend with his girlfriend that lives in Santa Barbara. His oldest sister is the person he most looks up to as she has graduated from a university and he hopes to do some day. Decribing himself as shy, motivated and determined. In ten years he hopes to have graduated from a university be married with children. His philosophy on school is “Work before pleasure.” Jonathan is a very smart guy, I hope him all the success in the world. check his blog out out if you have a chance.
http://jawkneee.blogspot.com/
http://jawkneee.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
What family?!
Family
What determines who your family is? Is it really all about blood, genes and DNA?
My parents came to the United States a long time ago from Mexico. They were the first and only people in both of their families to migrate here. Outside of my small three people family; there is nothing, no one else. Growing up it never really bothered me that there was no cousin or aunt or even grandmother around. But as I have grown older, a hollow spot for family memories has developed in my heart. I long for Christmas Eve with my big family. Not just for the holidays but just hanging out with someone that carries my name.
Today I do have a new family; my friends. I spend the same amount of time with my best friends as people do with everyday family members. These friends have been here for me through thick and thin. I have tried to visit real family members but the wait and money is too much and too long for me. I call my friends family because they are there for you no matter what. There is no higher name that I can give anyone else other than my sister and that is one of my best friends. I know in the future it is up to me to make a new family for myself and I hope that my children do not have to wonder where their family members are. Growing up on the opposite side of the border than your family is not right, you can visit all you want and for as long as you want but it is not the same as living a couple of doors down. I love both my parents but if they made any mistake was me being on this side. I love all my family but never get to see them much and that will probably never change. And that is why I have my friend family.
What determines who your family is? Is it really all about blood, genes and DNA?
My parents came to the United States a long time ago from Mexico. They were the first and only people in both of their families to migrate here. Outside of my small three people family; there is nothing, no one else. Growing up it never really bothered me that there was no cousin or aunt or even grandmother around. But as I have grown older, a hollow spot for family memories has developed in my heart. I long for Christmas Eve with my big family. Not just for the holidays but just hanging out with someone that carries my name.
Today I do have a new family; my friends. I spend the same amount of time with my best friends as people do with everyday family members. These friends have been here for me through thick and thin. I have tried to visit real family members but the wait and money is too much and too long for me. I call my friends family because they are there for you no matter what. There is no higher name that I can give anyone else other than my sister and that is one of my best friends. I know in the future it is up to me to make a new family for myself and I hope that my children do not have to wonder where their family members are. Growing up on the opposite side of the border than your family is not right, you can visit all you want and for as long as you want but it is not the same as living a couple of doors down. I love both my parents but if they made any mistake was me being on this side. I love all my family but never get to see them much and that will probably never change. And that is why I have my friend family.
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
My first job (getting a job)
Brenda Sanchez
Professor Croker
27 September 2011
English 101
ESSAY I
My First Real job
Seventeen years old, fresh out of high school, and I started working a minimum wage job at Denny’s. Not interested in education after four long years of cruelty, making money was all I cared about. I did not get the chance to walk the line with Pacifica High Schools Graduating Class of 2006, and honestly I did not care. I enjoyed my job a lot more than I had high school. I met a lot of new people all the time who were interesting and unique in each their own ways. The hours were good and my employers laid back and caring. I was making my own money and having fun, no longer dealing with petty high school business. The only person that was not happy was my mother. My mother was the only person at the time who insisted that I go to college after I had received my high school diploma.
I finally gave in to my mother’s wishes and enrolled at Oxnard College. I was not too sure what exact subject to accept as my major so I began with just general education classes. Starting college with no secure transportation and working was beginning to interfere with each other. People at work were constantly getting fired or calling Denny’s saying they were sick or just canceling their shifts all the time. I was asked to cover those empty shifts left and right, day shifts turned into double shifts. Sometimes I would ditch class just to sleep in. My mother was very disappointed she constantly would remind me of the struggles she went through in her life. I eventually stopped showing up to school all together and kept on working. I ignored my mother and went about life just working day in and day out.
Not going to school and devoting most of my time to work, seemed like it was progressing well for me at that moment of my life. Just when I realized everything was working out smoothly, my work environment began to turn for the worse. My fellow employees constantly made mistakes at work that would deeply upset the customers. The management started slacking off as well. Multiple times they forgot to input food orders to our producer and for a whole week some menu items would be inaccessible. Then one day, everything changed, this small older woman walked in through the door and announced she was the new manager. Four foot two, evil look in her eye, but she meant serious business; had been sent from upper management to fill the manager’s position after several complaints from customers.
Doris was bossy and crude, she made everyone around her presence feel inferior. She especially had an eye out for me and whenever we were in each other’s vicinity it was made clear; I was no good. My scheduled work hours started decreasing leaving me working only two days a week. The other workers being to also be rude, following Doris’s footsteps . At first I was upset, then I felt abused. The company that I was so loyal to betrayed me, and I had enough. I started showing up to work late and not caring about my appearance, which by corporation standards, was complete and utter defiance. We were arguing all the time about silly things that had no importance in the restaurant business. The more we argued the more I contemplated this path in life. Did I really want to work a low paying job my whole life and struggle to overcome? Or did I want to get an education work hard and get a better job? The more I thought about it, quitting my job was sounding like a really good idea.
Our last and final straw was on Halloween night, not only had I asked for the night off and not gotten it, but instead had to work well into the morning. I was outraged, I showed up to work one hour late to show that I disapproved. Ten minutes into my shift Doris started in on me, asking me why I was late and why I looked so unkept. I ignored her and went about my work, thirty minutes later two more workers came in, making us six workers in total. The restaurant was nearly bare except for this couple that sat in the back. I could not believe that I had to work on Halloween with six other people in an empty restaurant. I decided I was going to walk out, when Doris went in to talk with the night cooks I clocked out for the night and ran out the door. I was filled with instant happiness as I made a break for it through the parking lot, reminiscing about all the good and bad times working there.
Looking back now, I know that was a coward move on my behalf. How could I have just walked out on a job. I do believe that I was very Immature at the time and have learned so much between then and now. Leaving that job was in fact, the best thing for me. After I was able to find another job working in a retail position. I have jumped around from position to position but there is one thing I have not stopped doing is attending college. My mother is right, and in my eyes will continue to be right. Going back to college is and will still be the best thing anyone can do. Why not train for a career you love and earn a diploma saying you are proficient in education. That is the best reward anyone can earn other than an hourly payment.
Professor Croker
27 September 2011
English 101
ESSAY I
My First Real job
Seventeen years old, fresh out of high school, and I started working a minimum wage job at Denny’s. Not interested in education after four long years of cruelty, making money was all I cared about. I did not get the chance to walk the line with Pacifica High Schools Graduating Class of 2006, and honestly I did not care. I enjoyed my job a lot more than I had high school. I met a lot of new people all the time who were interesting and unique in each their own ways. The hours were good and my employers laid back and caring. I was making my own money and having fun, no longer dealing with petty high school business. The only person that was not happy was my mother. My mother was the only person at the time who insisted that I go to college after I had received my high school diploma.
I finally gave in to my mother’s wishes and enrolled at Oxnard College. I was not too sure what exact subject to accept as my major so I began with just general education classes. Starting college with no secure transportation and working was beginning to interfere with each other. People at work were constantly getting fired or calling Denny’s saying they were sick or just canceling their shifts all the time. I was asked to cover those empty shifts left and right, day shifts turned into double shifts. Sometimes I would ditch class just to sleep in. My mother was very disappointed she constantly would remind me of the struggles she went through in her life. I eventually stopped showing up to school all together and kept on working. I ignored my mother and went about life just working day in and day out.
Not going to school and devoting most of my time to work, seemed like it was progressing well for me at that moment of my life. Just when I realized everything was working out smoothly, my work environment began to turn for the worse. My fellow employees constantly made mistakes at work that would deeply upset the customers. The management started slacking off as well. Multiple times they forgot to input food orders to our producer and for a whole week some menu items would be inaccessible. Then one day, everything changed, this small older woman walked in through the door and announced she was the new manager. Four foot two, evil look in her eye, but she meant serious business; had been sent from upper management to fill the manager’s position after several complaints from customers.
Doris was bossy and crude, she made everyone around her presence feel inferior. She especially had an eye out for me and whenever we were in each other’s vicinity it was made clear; I was no good. My scheduled work hours started decreasing leaving me working only two days a week. The other workers being to also be rude, following Doris’s footsteps . At first I was upset, then I felt abused. The company that I was so loyal to betrayed me, and I had enough. I started showing up to work late and not caring about my appearance, which by corporation standards, was complete and utter defiance. We were arguing all the time about silly things that had no importance in the restaurant business. The more we argued the more I contemplated this path in life. Did I really want to work a low paying job my whole life and struggle to overcome? Or did I want to get an education work hard and get a better job? The more I thought about it, quitting my job was sounding like a really good idea.
Our last and final straw was on Halloween night, not only had I asked for the night off and not gotten it, but instead had to work well into the morning. I was outraged, I showed up to work one hour late to show that I disapproved. Ten minutes into my shift Doris started in on me, asking me why I was late and why I looked so unkept. I ignored her and went about my work, thirty minutes later two more workers came in, making us six workers in total. The restaurant was nearly bare except for this couple that sat in the back. I could not believe that I had to work on Halloween with six other people in an empty restaurant. I decided I was going to walk out, when Doris went in to talk with the night cooks I clocked out for the night and ran out the door. I was filled with instant happiness as I made a break for it through the parking lot, reminiscing about all the good and bad times working there.
Looking back now, I know that was a coward move on my behalf. How could I have just walked out on a job. I do believe that I was very Immature at the time and have learned so much between then and now. Leaving that job was in fact, the best thing for me. After I was able to find another job working in a retail position. I have jumped around from position to position but there is one thing I have not stopped doing is attending college. My mother is right, and in my eyes will continue to be right. Going back to college is and will still be the best thing anyone can do. Why not train for a career you love and earn a diploma saying you are proficient in education. That is the best reward anyone can earn other than an hourly payment.
Saturday, September 10, 2011
TXTMSG
Texting, is that even a real word? One of my old professors once told me that the grammar and vocabulary in modern day text messaging is atrocious. A lot of older people are just now getting into this generations ever growing fad. To me is the ultimate secret, only you and the person in conversation know what is being said. You can text anywhere and everywhere, you can text groups of people at a time and swarm peoples phones with text bombs. But what exactly is it and how does it work? I know you go to your phone and pick a contact and start typing press send, but is that it? where do the words really go? I love to text. the average person usually always uses one-word answers when in conversation with someone else. Sometimes I hate it because some people have bad reception and do not get their message till later. In the future we will probably be able to send our homework through text message. It might be something strange that we have yet to understand but it is the ultimate tool in communication and I think so many people are hooked on texting.
DOWN WITH TELEVISION!
Personally I hate television, my childhood was spent, mostly, on a couch or playing outside, but usually I picked the couch. My favorite shows to watch were: Rugrats, Doug, and Ah! real monsters.Now a days sitting in front of a black box for a couple of hours sounds the least bit exciting to me. There is so much one can do other than watch television. I know a lot of people will not agree with me as many of you are avid television watchers. As far as reality television shows are concerned the acting and actors could be better, but that is not the reason people watch. It’s all about the drama!, weather it’s real or not is up to you but usually people are drawn to reality TV shows because they promise to be packed with tons of drama. For example: my mother is obsessed with watching Spanish soap operas also known as “novelas.” She is so strung on these shows that anyone that so much as talks to her during, will be ignored completely and if you are lucky, you might be shushed. This programs are full of never ending drama by the way. Me and my mom always argue because I tell her she watches too many of these “novelas” and one day she is going to be able to jump into the TV and be in them.
Television is not like what is used to be, it has become a lot more graphic. Watching shows like “Teen Mom” is good and bad for society. Young girls get to see that having children at a young age is not as “cool” as they thought it was,and get an in depth look at how many young women today handle and cope with becoming a young parent. Jersey Shore is also another popular program of our generation and about the only show I will watch on TV because these people are living the dream, at least I think so. A couple of normal people (maybe) live in a house and are allowed to party all the time and drink at all times of the day, and I am sure they get paid for it. Currently our reality celebrities are in Italy on an all expense paid drunken party spree woo! They have already gotten into a couple of fights and have succeeded to make complete fools of themselves while intoxicated. When I say these people are living the dream I don’t really mean that. I know drinking alcohol everyday is not cool I know that hooking up with random people is slutty. But these young people are able to get their five minutes of fame as well as an honest buck all while drinking directly from the bottle on national television, times have changed.
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